Round and Round

By Zaina Starr

“We go back and forth between second thoughts and second chances.”
-Poem Heaven, Twitter

Our second thoughts are the second chances. That is all it should ever be, is second thoughts. There should never be second chances with an ex spouse. No one should never go backwards. Always learn to move forward. An ex spouse became an ex for a reason, either you didn’t respect them enough to be privileged to stay in their life, or vise versa.
That is where we all screw our lives up more than what should have been. The sadness in our hearts or others ’ heart pushes our thoughts to act in ways without the use of the knowledge and wisdom that we used to move on. Those second thoughts will have us living in our pasts and not using our ability to keep on keeping on.
Two people who have issues among one another that continue to arise prevents those people to grow the love they share between one another. Instead they learn to deteriorate each other’s emotions, well being, and ability to grow into the person they are meant to be, the person who they already are.
Always remember , if it did not work the way you or your ex spouse had planned or imagined your life together to be like, then do not keep going back over and over again. The end results will always be the same or similar to the first end results. Keep those second thoughts just as thoughts. No action upon…