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Why Our Heart’s Get Broken
By Suzanne Marie Punch
Has anyone ever sat and asked, "Why do our hearts get broken?" I believe that has run across everyone’s mind. My personal experience on this topic is quite remarkable . I should be a bitter, hateful person to all and any man, but I’m quite the opposite. I always look for the positive. There is a reason for everything. When I can’t see a reason, that alarms me.
I have been through two divorces and two other serious relationships that I could have married because there was love there. Every one of those relationships lasted approximately three years. Therefore, it takes three years to get to know someone. Most people are not who they say they are. Just because you are who you say you are. Not everyone is you. Always be prepared for the worst. If you always expect the worst, you will be thankful for what is not the worst.
There are positive situations that come with negative outcomes and negative situations that come with positive outcomes. Also known as karma.
Karma only gives us what we deserve, nothing more and nothing less. We make choices and we have to learn to accept all the reactions to our actions. Accept the good and the bad with equal excitement. Because we are all getting what we deserve.
If you have loved so many times and gotten your heart broken....the time is coming where you will have that love you been searching for. If you have always been the heart breaker…